GUYS...your opinions pls?

What a great and charming guy. Agrees with anything you decide and respects you in every way. Listen the first thing is that if you knew that he was leaving back to his country you shouldn't have told him those direct (yet the truth) words just yet. Life is full of surprises. How do you know he might come back to the US and live here permanently or all of a sudden he just tells you I'm Staying! By saying "live our separate lives" is going to make him harder for him to say goodbye to you or for you to say goodbye to him. In other words "wish for him the best and to live a happy life" "You will always be in my heart and I'll never forget you. Should you come back I'll wait for you here. Thanks for being my best friend." Wrong words can and WILL create difficult situations. I bet you right know he is thinking of those very words you said and feel not just sad but heartbroken. But both of you must always remember....you must let go and face reality. HE REALLY is expecting for you to say goodbye to him before he leaves. Go to a store and get a friendship or best friends card write down what you really want to say to him (something he can keep permenantly) ,a picture of you, and for you two to always keep in touch. Like I said Life is full of surprises. As for you to see him before he leaves...invite him somewhere fun (NO SLOW MUSIC) have fun together (ALOT OF FUN!), don't mention anything about the good old times between you and him you're gonna complicate yourself to say goodbye to him, talk about for him to send you pictures from his country and for his face to be in it, avoid sad stuff and when its time for him to leave hug and kick his butt... I mean ..hug and tell him something funny. Hope he gives you something for you to remember him by (flowers or something). Last what do I think of this, its normal and sad that you are going through this but follow my advice...you'll never know what might happen. Times change be strong and have courage and ...be always HAPPY. OK!